It's winter time...you know the whole "fall in love in the wintertime" crap that rings in the ears of women during this time. This isn't purposed to knock anyone that has a significant other or desires to have a decent relationship, but rather to shed light on women not being able to discern between ill motives and hidden agendas that men bring in the name of love.
Don't be so stupid! Yes, I said it...stupid! Don't allow your wanting love so much that you belittle your standards and self-worth for a couple of cuddling nights with someone on a snowy day and think that it's about to really go somewhere. Here's some food for thought just to give some enlightenment...I'm going to give a quick 3 and come back with more...you gotta crawl before you walk...some of yall need to stop running and really see what's going on
1. if you hear comments like "you don't know how to love" come out of a guys mouth cut him loose!
(first off, the easiest move in the game is to get a women to fall under a man's philosophy of expression...now you are following his standards and not your own)
2. a man is always on the chase...since historic days we have been hunters and gatherers (read your history books)...so we know about competition and objectives and motives and plans and so on and so forth...make sure you do ladies...some fellas have strategic ways to get what they want and you'll think it's random acts of kindness...NO...game betta recognize game!
3. sharks can always find wounded people and wounded fish...you think your broke down beat up "i need a man self" is not attracting guys that prey on that type of emotion...HA!!! "be not deceived"...you leaking all kinds of odors when you walk outside and wonder why the same nasty jokers keep coming up to you...come on now...
***Don't put anything past anybody! I would suggest to my ladies that you should have some sort of mental checklist that enables you to ween out the real and the fake so that you won't cry those "I thought he was different tears" a year down the line. Stop getting caught up and begin to see what you are really dealing with...he was different but you looked crooked and made him the same***
